I guess I’m a noticer because I’ve always befriended new Christmas hygge with my Nisser shirt, sweater, introducing them to others and often they find friendships because of that, not necessarily sticking to ME, which as a kid I thought was mean but as an adult, I realize I’m a catalyst for others and have accepted that some people just ‘click’ and it’s no insult to me. You are in the perfect role at church greeter. I will always remember moving to a new community & being asked to leave by the woman in the pew in front of me because my then 3-year-old daughter was talking quietly to me during the service.
Christmas hygge with my Nisser shirt, sweater, hoodie and v-neck t-shirt
Best Christmas hygge with my Nisser shirt, sweater
I told her I would not be bothering her again as we would not be returning Christmas hygge with my Nisser shirt, sweater. The next week, we tried another new church. The woman at the door greeted our family with the most loving, warm, accepting openness. I will never forget Miss Pam and how she exuded “come as you are” to us. It was our church home for 6 years until we had to move again. Please never underestimate the importance of your role and your beautiful Noticing heart. So sorry you experienced that feeling. I would probably describe it as dread. But perhaps it is a collection of feelings. Sending you a hug from afar!